How many years humanity exists, how many discoveries a person made, but love could not solve. Why love dominates the world of our hearts, and we are not able to fight it? Why the heart says one thing, but the mind repeats the other? For these and thousands of other questions, people have been looking for answers for many years, but, unfortunately, they do not find an answer. Rather, on the contrary, they give love to the Areol of holiness and surround this feeling with myths. What kind of love myths have created, and what they believed in? Feeling intensifies at a distance. It is believed that separation holds the feeling between a man and a woman. Yes, you will wait for a new meeting with impatience, forget about family troubles, mountains of undesirable dishes and an unprepared dinner. For a while. And then you will feel terribly lonely, you will be angry with him for the fact that he is “having fun there”, and you are one-single here. In addition, people should connect something in common. Loss of common interests connecting elements – a direct path to a breakdown. And then separation will become the only possible way of existence. But she will already have nothing to bind.
When I get married, I will become happy. The very thought is true, in marriage a person should be happy. But where did you get the idea that you cannot be happy out of marriage? Marriage for modern girls has become something like an end in itself. Having fulfilled their dream-cocked, they are disappointed in marriage, in their man, cease to believe in love. Because they think that marriage is a panacea from troubles, a way to gain happiness. The record in the passport will not make your life happy and trouble -free. Marriage is a combination of two loving hearts, and not a way to transfer responsibility for their future fate in the hands of a partner. With the advent of the baby, everything will change. Will change, just not as you think. It is extremely rare when the birth of the baby “saved” the family. The appearance of a child is a very important event, but it is impossible to manipulate the baby for his own benefit. The woman becomes even more dependent, becoming a mother. If the relationship is on the verge of a gap, then holding a man in this way is simply stupid. Why keep the one who does not value you near you? Will you be happy, knowing that your husband does not love you? After all, his attitude towards you, unfortunately, can be projected to the baby. So that no one will be happy in this family: neither you, nor your husband, nor your common child. Next to me he will change for the better. What a naivety! A person can change, this is certainly true. But it is difficult to assume about your role in this process. Everything can happen exactly as in your dreams, but it can happen in a different way. Not at all like you would like that. Any person can only change when he wants it. When you love, close your eyes to a lot. Of course, you can reassure yourself in this way. But in reality it is not quite. An adult reasonable person is able to see not only the positive aspects of his partner, but also negative. See and love them, just like that. Agree, it’s foolish to believe that your faithful is so blind from love for you that you do not notice how you rush one candy after another, hang on the phone for hours and with all the talents of female nature, discuss your girlfriend’s new boyfriend. He sees everything and notices everything. What to do? Work on yourself. You need to work on yourself in order to give a reason to your beloved once again to admire you. Ideal couples never quarrel. This is a public consciousness imposed on us in childhood. We are used to thinking that a quarrel is something out of the ordinary, in other words, it is “bad”. No, it’s absolutely normal. You are two different people, you have different arms, legs, ears, eyes, and you also have different points of view. And this is also normal. Any dispute should be constructive, that is, it is important not only to express your opinion (although this is very important), but also to come to the general conclusion. What should be avoided: quarrels when “hands itch”; mutual insults (take into service “I-Respecting”); unresolved quarrels. Each of us has its own half in this world, and only one. You can gain true happiness in youth, but you can after the fourth unsuccessful marriage. Public opinion, the authority of which is a powerful force, imposes a veto on our life. And we obey, preferring to sit and wait for our prince either quietly and unobtrusively complain about our fate. Dear people, people! This is your life, do not allow someone to dispose of it. Only you have the right to this, you are created to live and love yourself, love your loved ones, love the whole world ..