“Mom, I love you!»What could be more important than these touching and important words that sound from the mouth of a child in a woman’s life! Each of us at a certain moment dreams of being in the role of a gentle, caring and loving mother. And it is very important to be psychologically ready for this role. The willingness of a woman to become a mother is an important point that involves not only bearing a child and his birth, but also responsibility for the baby, his upbringing and, most importantly, a sincere love for a little man! Due to the prevalence of female emancipation, there are more and more women who do not want to have children. Unfortunately, for them a child is a burden and a heavy burden on which you need to spend a lot of time and effort. Such reluctance plays a negative impact, both on the woman itself and on her family as a whole: the continuation of the genus stops, motherhood loses its value. A family who has no children, as a rule, is not fully happy! Hard children conceived in a family where spouses love each other. There comes a moment when the news comes that a woman is in an “interesting position”! Gradually there is a restructuring of the female body not only in the physical, but also mental plane. As the child grows in the womb, maternal feelings are increasingly revealed, which is based on the care of the baby. But at the same time, fears appear: • fear that they will not be able to raise a child, give everything that he needs. Experiences before a new and remaining lifetime appears, responsibility to the baby. Often this fear occurs in young parents who have not previously have children.• Fear of loss of personal time and space, which were originally. For any person at certain moments, you need to be alone, do your favorite thing, distract from everyday life. And the child, especially at first, will occupy the entire space of the mother.• Loss of independence. Especially this fear appears in successful, working women who are used to being in the center of events and dispose of their time on their own. But there is no need to be afraid of this, these difficulties are overcome, and already in the near future it will be possible not only to raise a child, but also to develop personally and professionally.• Fear of pain. This fear can be overcome by visiting schools for expectant mothers or reading articles on this topic. Visit medical forums and chat with women already giving birth. Find out what and at what point is happening and what you need to be prepared for.• Fear of spoiling the figure, stopping your husband and, most importantly, to yourself. This fear is inherent in every woman. In order to quickly enter the form, there are many tips on healthy nutrition and physical exercises.• Doubts in his own husband, as in his father. Will he be able to become a caring and attentive dad? If a woman is confident in a man, then there will be no such fear, but if she doubts, then it is worth discussing her unrest with her husband. All these fears are overcome and solved, most importantly, not be afraid to see them and understand themselves. After the birth of a child, the woman realizes that the carefree period of her life with a professional career, personal freedom, habits and plans has ended. The child absorbs all the time and often because of this arises irritability, aggressiveness, disappointment of himself. And here it is important to understand that such a state of the mother adversely affects the child. As soon as possible, a woman needs to prioritize: her own needs or baby? It is necessary to tolerate a little and then the young mother will feel the return on her child and see how beautiful motherhood, which more and more gains her strength! Mom is the first and important person in the life of the baby. She will always be near the child throughout all stages of growing up and depends on her to a large extent, the happy future of the child.
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