How to cope with your shortcomings and change them so that these changes become used to work for your image?
If you lack representative skills.
This can be learned in the courses either in the company during working hours or outside. You can polish these manners at home with your family, with friends or just in front of the mirror. For example, one of my employees trained on her children. Before performing any action, whether to brush her teeth or eat hated porridge, she conducted a mini presentation of the “product”, I hope you understand how difficult it is to keep the attention of restless children. But the experience she gained allowed this woman one of the leading managers in our region.
You are too shy or verbose.
This will also require certain efforts from you. If you are too shy, set the goal of saying something to every person you will meet during the day. Even simple: “Hello! Great day, isn’t it?»It is quite suitable. Of course, you will not immediately become a brilliant speaker, but at least help you learn to use your own voice. You can write down thoughts that you would like to express at the meeting, and then dare to say them. Do it all the time.
If you are verbose, then weaken your “eloquence” as follows: count in the mind to ten before starting to speak, and then say only a few words.
You lack skill in writing reports.
This can only be learned by practicing. The first and most difficult step, as with any drawback, is the realization that this is your drawback. “Great,” you say, “but how to help yourself?»Record for training in an effective letter will not only increase your skill in writing reports, but also help you in other areas of your work. If you are not satisfied with your studies in the group, buy a training disk or hire a tutor.
You have no idea how to dress correctly.
Start by reading special magazines, ask your friends, colleagues, copy the image of people whom you admire at work, you see on television. Training in courses will also not be superfluous.
You start muttering when you read the report.
Write down what I need to say, and then consciously read it at a speed equal to half of the one that you consider normal. To calm down, take a deep breath before starting, and then make a small pause at the end of each sentence to slow yourself. You can recover from muttering and so. Sit at home, take the recorder, slowly read the excerpt from the book, listen to the record; Do this until you learn to speak at a reasonable speed. Reception with a voice recorder is useful for everyone, concerned about the upcoming performance before a certain audience.
You find difficult communication with customers.
To get along with people, you should like them, so you need to find something in common with them. Make sure you are dressed according to the situation, which will give you a sense of comfort. Then try to find in another person something brought closer to you. Perhaps you both buy clothes of a certain style, or you have a watch of the same brand. Make sure that you have prepared all those points that you wanted to pay attention to the client. You will be better to contact people if you know well what you want to tell them, and you will say it clear. Smile and friendly manners will help you too.
I wish you to succeed!