Fans of teaching others. You ever met a person who knows everything, and knows everything, and saw everything, and heard everything … Well, and so on .. ?
Most likely – yes. Sometimes such individuals are found.
Think for a moment how you felt next to such a “semi-good”? Not very comfortable?
No wonder. This is understandable. The lack of comfort in such situations does not arise from the fact that this “semi-human” told you that you do not know something, or do not know how to. This discomfort of the same kind that a person is experienced by the will of a chance next to a militant schizophrenic, for example in public transport. Here you think not so much about yourself as about an annoying fellow traveler.
As they say, people are ashamed that you can count you too for an idiot.
The problem is simplified when others also begin to see and understand the situation, with their worshiping and boving knowledge “semi-whine”.
Since situations of this kind do not always arise among individuals with clinically confirmed defects of the psyche, it would be interesting to understand how such an effect arises in people – usually adequate, and in the everyday life of themselves, as a rule, without towering their experience and knowledge Over others.
For what?
First, in order to be correctly related to those who have such a problem. And secondly, in order not to be in the place of such “all-knowledge”.
Here is an example from a real life that one of my friends told me.
It just so happened that his friend gets to the hospital. The problem was not terrible, the operation did not require what they could – as they say, they helped, but for some time he was left in the hospital at the hospital so that he would recover under the supervision of a doctor.
And one day, my friend visits his friend in the hospital and watches a very interesting picture. His mother came to visit his friend (this refers to the mother who got to the hospital).
We note at once that a woman she has honored age, has worked for many years at responsible guidelines. In the communist past, she is a party activist. A rather brisk woman, even now she, as I understand it, is the leader of a social movement.
So she is simple (as they say now) “brought everyone brains” with her teachings and recommendations, honey. Sisters, patients who lay in the same ward, guests of patients who managed to visit their relatives on this day. For each of them, she found what to say and what to instruct.
And she could not stop. She simply burst out like yeast, from each fact of submitting a recommendation to anyone. If someone began to argue or disagree with her, she found the counterargument (only far from place and out of business).
In a word, my mother entered the image and began to play, imagining herself a very significant person, knowing absolutely everything in all areas of life.
My friend later asked his friend: “What it was?”. But I received the answer that such behavior is not typical of my mother, and she usually does not behave like that, although it sometimes teaches someone from her mind subordinates to the mind. But teaches tactfully.
So. It is clear that for the aforementioned person (for mom) this is not standard behavior, but most likely the consequences of stress from the situation with her son. But as they say: any berry had a time when it was a flower, and each flower has its own root.
And in this situation, the barrier behind which was hidden by a thirst for superiority, broke under the pressure of stress and the woman “suffered”.
What conclusions can be drawn?
In relation to people who love to teach others – we can conclude that the “teacher” who appreciates himself will never be imposed on others with his advice, and before giving this advice, he will think a hundred times that this advice will bring to whom this advice Designed.
In relation to people who fall under the “active concern” of the loving to teach, we can conclude that due to their attention to the “instructive person”, such a “instructive person” simply wants to assert himself simply mentally raising the listeners.
Participate in such mental rape in any way or not, to decide of course everyone personally. But how much easier it is to live without falling into such states and not becoming victims of such actions.