Good afternoon, dear readers of the site “Training MLM”.
Have you ever thought that you are talking as your parents, perform the same actions as your parents and even sometimes make the dreams of your parents? Your mother dreamed of playing a piano in childhood, and now you are studying at a music school. Your dad has always dreamed of dealing with a fight, and now you are visiting sports sections.
In the article we will talk about why this is happening? We will try to understand how to deal with it.
All these habits, phrases, desires have been laid in us from early childhood. This is a certain program. We observe our parents, absorb everything like a sponge. Remember the words of the parents: we have no money, money – evil, all rich evil, this is not for us, we cannot afford it, and so on.
This book gave me the ground for thought. After all, not only the financial program is laid in us. Pay attention, we are talking like our parents, we think in the same way. If parents say to their child: “You are the most beautiful, irresistible, you always do everything right,” the child will grow up with a terrible selfish. But there is a more terrible situation when your parents say to the child: “You won’t get anything, you are a slut, your hands are not growing from there, not a single girl will look at you” and everything is in this spirit. Now we know that the program has been laid down in us since childhood. Imagine what will happen when a child who was rude, humiliated, did not give attention to grow up. Not only does he become the same rude, irresponsible, he will have a psychological injury left. All our complexes, all our insecurity comes from there, from childhood.
Parents must understand that their child will be their small copy. It’s sad to watch parents scold their children, from childhood inspire them that they are not neat, not beautiful, that they can’t do anything. Understand, all this will affect their subconscious. Develop your children, inspire confidence in them. Be sure to follow your actions. As they say, the best motivation is a personal example. If you swear obscenities, smoke, and drink a bottle of beer before bedtime, get into debt and do not develop, it is not difficult to guess what will happen to your child.
Let’s talk about what to do if the wrong program has already been laid down in your subconscious?
Remember, you need to treat not symptoms, but the cause of the “disease”. We need to realize the problem. Most likely, that all your beliefs are not your beliefs at all, but your parents or your environment based on their personal experience. Now that you understand that this is not your beliefs at all, you just need to choose the right manner of behavior for yourself.
So, how to get rid of habits, words, statements that have been imposed on us since childhood?
AWARENESS. Remember the words that your parents said, the actions that they did.
UNDERSTANDING. How these actions still affect your life.
Removal. Now you understand that these beliefs are imposed on you. They are just laid in your subconscious. And you have the opportunity to change your life.
This is the exercise and everything that is written in three points should be prescribed. Now you have to choose another way of thinking. And this is a separate topic. Finding yourself is not so simple, for that now you clearly realize that many thoughts that interfered with you were simply imposed on your subconscious.