Nothing will excite schoolchildren like the appearance of a new. The first few days in your head a hundred questions are carried: with whom she will sit in the dining room? Will the others like it? Where does she come from? But let the new one will not remain a mystery to you. Believe us: she feels lonely and not at ease, and she needs a friend. You can become such a girlfriend.
Get the courage.
Yes, yes, of course, it’s easier to say than to do. Of course, starting a conversation can be very difficult, especially if you are afraid of all these awkward pauses. But just imagine: the new one is like a bug (wait, don’t laugh). Despite the fact that you are a little scared, the bug is much worse. The same thing happens with beginners. So if you look at everything from this side, approaching the new one will be easier. (Just look, do not slam bug!)
Yes, tell me something!
The very first conversation does not have to be in addition to serious – just melt the ice. Even if the topic is uninteresting and unforgettable, do not worry: it is not so important. Start with simple questions: “Hello, what is your name?”” Where are you from (say the name you just heard)?»” Wow, and how so far you are here?»Finish the conversation with an invitation to go to the dining room together and sit with you at the same table, if she has not chosen a place for herself. Still stop at this.
What to do next.
In fact, she most likely will not remember what your name is when you meet again. Well, think for yourself! After all, she gets acquainted with a mass of new people every day, and she has to remember a bunch of new information. Therefore, you will have to talk to her again, to introduce yourself again and this time dig a little deeper. Ask her a question about her life before moving: she probably misses her and would like to share with someone. Then tell her about some not too scandalous story, rumors about which they go to school and which she needs to know. In this case, she will not feel completely alien.
Enter the brand new to your company.
Now that you communicate so well with each other, imagine the new one to your friends – preferably in a situation where she will not feel awkward. Invite the girls to your home to the spa, or go to the next series of the Cool Musical. Even if they do not immediately become best friends, the acquaintance of your girlfriends with a new girl can drive away unpleasant envious thoughts that inevitably arise when the new.
Freedom of communication.
Attention! A brand new can perfectly get along with your friends and really make friends with one or more of them. If this happens, you will need to be happy for them. Friendship does not share, but unites. So if she becomes the best friend of your best friend, so be it. Congratulate yourself, because if it weren’t for you, this girl would still be alone and would not know how to get out of the class to the chemistry cabinet. You are beautiful!