Setting goals is only the beginning of the realization of the desired dream, and it is this part that it is necessary to build correctly from the very beginning.
You need to build a specific structure of all steps, the execution of which will allow you to get closer to your goal. Only in this way the desired result will be achieved.
Next, I will try to describe my point of view into the sequence of these specific actions, but I must warn about the next. If you are really ready to change your life and take specific steps towards success, you must do the same way that I will describe below and in the next articles. The unrealization of one of these steps will stop the whole process, and your effort will be in vain.
In life, it is necessary to set not only strategic goals but also intermediate (tactical).
Easy to say. But in order to begin to realize your big dream, you must learn to set and fulfill specific intermediate goals. This serious mistake is made by many novice football players. Usually they only dwell on the compilation of global targets, such as – "I want to be the best in the world, in the country, in the club, and t. D.”. However, they do not know that such a setting of things and create barriers that prevent them from achieving success.
I will give an example that will explain the above.
Suppose one of the players set a goal for himself "Become the best player of your country". This task will be the final goal of the player, which, as a rule, is long -term. And if it is limited only to a pattern of this goal, then it will certainly not become a triumph.
The task – "To become the best player in your country", It is impossible to perform easily every day or even every year. You agree? Thus, in order to get such a result, you must work in this direction for at least ten years, or even fifteen or twenty.
How do you like this prospect? It seems to me that many have already lost its appetite to compile such “dreams”. Indeed, the prospects for the achievement of such a big dream seems to be very gloomy. Nevertheless, in the world and your country there are a lot of children who still dream about it. Moreover, many of them even embody these dreams into reality. Thus, the dream of “becoming a successful football player” is not possible to call the past, it is really real.
What steps are still required to take?
After you set yourself this global dream, you must set yourself many intermediate goals, the so -called goals "tactical tasks". They are divided into daily plans, monthly, annual, etc. D.
So. From an early age you will have to find out if your health allows you to deal with such an intense and traumatic profession – football player. Then they must advise parents or other specialists who will help you choose a specific school or football club, where there are conditions and qualified coaches. After, you must pass the selection in these groups. Further, year after year, you should set small goals in the process of becoming a specialist in your craft under the supervision of coaches and club specialists.
And in the end, you should know that usually, in order to become a professional football player, you need to go a fairly thorny long way. More precisely-10 years at the level of children and youth level, and 5-6 years at the youth level (7-18 years, 19-23 years old). As you can see, in order to fulfill such a dream, it is necessary about 16 years of work, and provided that many internal and external factors are not dependent on you, will be favorable throughout this way.
Only based on these “intermediate goals”, you can form your own plan of specific theoretical and practical actions, the realization of which will allow you to get your dream. You have caught the essence? This is the only way, you are unlikely to find another way. And if you now understand that this dream is not able to fulfill, reduce it or proceed to another goal. And if another task is just as difficult, then you need to choose another profession, it’s not too late. Maybe there you will find your real meaning of life.
For those who still dare to continue, I will reveal an important secret. Even if you have a global goal, and you have correctly compiled your own plan of “intermediate goals” and act daily, there is another problem that can stop you from the path. This problem lies in "involuntary human qualities of constant comparing oneself with other people".
This becomes even sharper in today’s times, when the media, including the Internet and social networks, regularly show all types of success of the rest of the people. From this information, you will learn that their heroes have reached such a level of professionalism for some time. And when you begin to compare their results with your capabilities, your dreams become inaccessible. As a result, there is a risk of leaving your dream and surrender.
Suppose you hear on TV or read on the Internet that some “star football players” have reached their lives of life for some time. To do this, they used certain methods and means (secret or very expensive) that accelerated their success. However, in comparison with the opportunities that you currently have, your goals are unrealistic. So you can become a victim of disappointment in your ability to realize yourself. It was usually that happened with most players who abandoned their initial plans. They thought that something was wrong with them, in blindly correct their own goals, each time putting them out of reality or releasing a very low bar of demands for themselves.
So be careful! Do not let yourself be lured into this trap! Your dreams should remain only yours, and no one should be interested in them, since you should not be interested in the success stories of others. These “tales” should serve you as a source of inspiration, and only. Let the heroes of these articles do what they want to achieve their success – you have your own life, your position, your realities in which you live and develop.
Thus, I advise you to calmly install your "Global dreams", It is also very important that you make up "Intermediate goals". Develop your own action plan and begin to carry out everything with full confidence in your abilities. Soon you will begin to realize for yourself that you begin to approach your success. The final fulfillment of your dream will be a matter of time, and time, in this case, will begin to work for you.
Good luck!
I hope this will become useful to you.