We are all social law -abiding citizens born in love, brought up in the spirit of our time. From the moment we started walking under the table, the world has its influence on us. It is during this period that the first experiments of social communication appear:
– In order to pick up the machine from Antokha in the sandbox, you need to distract it with something;
– And so that the boy from the parallel first class noticed you – “inadvertently” step on his leg;
– And if you don’t want to treat your friend at home with a cutlet, she can be hidden in a hill with buckwheat porridge and imperceptibly eat.
A little later, their “heroes” appear – an initiative friend, an older brother/sister, and even a teacher. And we give people around us some qualities; we can give them a characteristic when communicating with other people, but how accurate and truthful it happens? Let’s see…
Labels and medal
By and large, you may not worry about your personal labels, because other “socialists” living nearby will be hung on you. Basically, the labels are hung on the ears, on the back, well, I can click on my nose if you have enough impressive size. Moreover, getting rid of labels is almost impossible, especially if it comes to school labels ..
By its amazing nature, the labels smell mostly negative. Thanks to them, very bad things are born, such as compression, revenge, complexes. What happens next? You, not wanting to walk with a label on your nose, decide on meanness – you hang the same label on your neighbor. This is not buzzing, but it partially helps the consciousness to disguise yourself and become the same as everyone. So whole layers of the population with the same shortcuts appear: Dunno, omnipresent, Morozko, Darke, bitch, group of greenhouse individuals of male, cattle, lyceum student and (add optional)
Here in such a fair, we need to exist. And there is only one way out: I don’t give a fuck over the left shoulder, wink in your reflection in the mirror and act as your conscience or your inner voice tells.
You can write a whole treatise about the medal, but I will probably limit myself to a couple of paragraphs, because I really want to see you here again, my dear readers 🙂
So the medallins appear automatically. We just do what other “socialists” at the moment expect from us. But this is called a kind and sincere participation in the life of another person. But unfortunately (as in any normal medal), in our medals there is also the opposite side, namely:
– You can be mistaken for a saint and, in case of refusal to help, brutally punish with the words: “And they recommended you completely on the other side!”;
– Based on my own experience, I can also confidently say: good is always punishable!;
– Well, the road is fixed with good intentions (you yourself know where).
Also, when medts rewarded with worthy companions of your life, the latter may not withstand such a breakfast and turn into your indignation and disappointment. This is from the series: “You ruined me all your life”, “He thought the prince on a horse, but it turned out to be an engineer with a small salary!”,” All of you are the same women the same! Give you oligarchs!“Semyon shouted towards the glazed balcony on the third floor and quietly whispered to the neighbor:“ Pour ”.
Stereotype
I will not write about what a stereotype is, because I still can’t call the exact date of the appearance in the company of the first stereotype. So imagine this situation: you know a person recently, but during a short period of time of your communication, he has already impressed you with a normal, psychologically balanced person. You even managed to mark it with a medal. Suddenly a third party appears on the horizon – this is your common familiar “socialist” who shows you your collection consisting of compromising evidence and labels on your new friend. Your actions?
A – I will stop saying to a new acquaintance and, having hung a label on his nose, take a medal.
B – I will try to recognize a person better and make sure the third “socialist”.
B – I will send the third “socialist” to the village for grandfather to collect bananas and his reasoning will not affect my relationship with the unfamiliar “socialist”.
G – your option.
Epilogue
Try to trust people. Do not be afraid to fill the cones – this is your invaluable experience. Do not characterize people in any way, because there is no absolutely good or hopelessly bad person. Just everyone can do bad or good, depending on the situation. Develop, strive, dream, love this day, this is the sky and your house. Be yourself!