To begin with, we will voice the fact that we all, one way or another, are emitters and energy receivers, but to varying degrees. One tends to give more, others are configured to get energy. There is nothing supernatural here, the opposite sides are attracted. After all, we will not blame a small child for paying him a significant part of their time, or a seriously ill person who constantly needs to leave and, accordingly, a lot of attention. Friends who are asking for support in difficult times, we will not drive either, all this is natural, in such a situation we are also waiting for response to response.
The following that is worth noting, no one will use your energy if you yourself do not provoke it.
Also, it must be remembered that the failure in energy exchange is not observed from the moment of birth, this quality acquired and is related to life circumstances.
Back to children, all of them need parental attention. However, there are situations when they do not receive it. As a result, in order to satisfy the lack of energy, children begin to create situations that they try to attract attention, usually this ends with the dissatisfaction of their parents, but from the point of view of energy exchange, this is not so important.
Distortion can grow from a radically opposite situation. Parents of the soul do not bow in their child, and just the same flood him with their care, protect him in every possible way from making independent decisions, not trusting them.
Accustomed to such an appeal, even in adulthood, this person will need splashes of energy from the side.
This can manifest in different ways. You can start with no one who needs to be started, their own problems or illnesses, any excuse will be used to draw the attention of others, and, most importantly, take part in the process absolutely unnecessary for them.
What can be recommendations for those in whose environment there are such people?
– First, outline the contours of personal boundaries for which you will not give to cross;
– stop any attempts by others to violate your mental balance;
– adhere to the intended goals contrary to the abundance of other people’s opinions;
– Analyze how easy it is to cause you to cause guilt or fear (these are your favorite manipulator tools);
– Do not rush to give an answer, think it over, in which case it will be more conscious, with a smaller admixture of emotions.
Remember, the victim always attracts the aggressor.